Saturday, May 08, 2010

sources of depression

1] the prospect of a weekend's worth of marking papers & calculating final grades

2] the descent of Florida summer; heat index in the mid-90s today; even now, almost 1 am, it feels like soup outside

3] the Greasemonkey script I added to Firefox which tells me who's unfriended me on Facebook; this one I think I'll have to remove – too much angst in my life already, without worrying about "social" "networks"

4] as always – deadlines

6 comments:

  1. after my two friends died
    I dropped facebook

    neither he nor she nor I had much to say

    now
    ALL of my poems end in
    dead-lines
    where once they were entirely run-ons

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  2. Thanks for the reality check, Ed. Life -- as opposed to the alternative -- is good.

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  3. I too have dropped FB. Nothing to do with any particular "friend": rather, the steady barrage of privacy stories made me realize I wasn't using it for anything essential, even by the low standards of online activity.

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  4. Anonymous4:28 PM

    well
    face this book

    for ten bucks!

    not great art/poetry
    but
    what is:

    http://thisisvisualpoetry.com/



    AND here is a thought/observation re: facebook and all the other internet crap:

    most of those using facebook were born around 1988 and can handle that college course - Malaise 2.0
    they've never lived in a world without the Internet
    they live with an exaggerated sense of self worth
    and spend all of their time putting their every thought "out there" on
    My Space, You Tube, Tweet, and facebook, Google Me... etc

    all these instant tolls/machines to self-promote

    BEFORE THEY HAVE A SELF!

    etc

    and or steal a persona as I paraphrase from an article on the last page of May's GQ:

    "Dear (Possibly Doomed) Class of 2010)"


    Dig it!

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  5. My 13 year old daughter complained to me the other day that she was bored. I suggested that instead of chatting to her friends on facebook she visit them or invite them round and spend some real time together. Her telling reply: "Dad, none of them like me that much!"

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  6. Anonymous4:57 PM

    ... and I betcha everyone of those
    13-year old little darlings
    really believe/think that
    fame is a birthright

    just wait until each one of them is on say The Silliman blog-roll

    punch up anyone of them there and there will be another 10,000 on that person's blog-roll

    hell

    "they and them"
    at one time was
    "thee and thou"


    your lucky around my HOOD the 13 year old girls are having sex/babies, doing drugs, and carrying knives!

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